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My child is struggling at school. Can I modify the custody order?

On Behalf of | Dec 17, 2025 | Family Law

When a child’s grades slip or behavioral reports start coming home, your first instinct as a parent is to find a solution. Often, the root of the struggle is not the classroom but the schedule. 

If a current custody arrangement prevents your child from getting the stability, tutoring or parental oversight they need to succeed, the law may provide a path for change.

Change in circumstances is required

Minnesota law generally requires a waiting period before parents can ask to change a custody order. You need to show that a “substantial change in circumstances” has happened since the judge signed the last order.

If you can prove that the current environment endangers the child’s emotional development or educational progress, the court may consider modifying the existing agreement. Sharp drops in grades or poor school attendance are often valid reasons for reviewing the case.

The focus is always on the child

Every decision in family courts centers on the “best interests of the child.” A judge examines several factors to decide if a new schedule will help your student succeed:

  • Educational needs: Can the child access tutoring or special education services more easily at your home?
  • Stability: Does the current back-and-forth schedule cause too much stress for the child to focus on homework?
  • Parental involvement: Which parent consistently attends parent-teacher conferences and supervises school projects?
  • Physical proximity: Does the child spend too many hours commuting between houses instead of studying or sleeping?

Courts prefer to keep children in a stable routine unless a change offers a clear advantage. You need to demonstrate that the benefits of a new custody arrangement outweigh any harm caused by upsetting the current routine.

Potential outcomes

When a judge agrees that the current situation hurts academic performance, they have several ways to intervene. Possible modifications to the custody order may include:

  • Changing the primary residence to the parent living closer to the school
  • Adjusting the weekly schedule to reduce mid-week transitions that disrupt homework
  • Granting one parent sole educational decision-making authority to ensure the child receives tutoring or IEP services
  • Mandating a specific study routine or school attendance requirements in the court order

The goal is to create a predictable environment where your child can focus on learning. Instead of moving a child entirely, courts typically target the specific problem. 

Proving your case in court

Seeking a modification to existing orders is more than just a gut feeling that your child is unhappy. This legal action heavily relies on gathering concrete evidence that links their academic struggles to the current custody arrangement.

If the other parent agrees to the change, the process moves much faster through a written agreement. Without their consent, you need to convince a judge that the child’s education is at risk.

Consider collecting school records, emails from teachers and professional evaluations from counselors. It also helps to document specific instances where the current schedule caused missed assignments or prevented the child from attending necessary tutoring sessions. These steps, taken with proper legal guidance, may help you build a strong argument and save your child’s academic future.